I was single for years because I’m too hot to date and men are ‘scared off’ by my looks

A woman claims she was single for six years because she’s too hot to date, and men are intimidated by her confidence.

Shirley Rosemary Flynn, 41, from Birmingham, says rude trolls called her ‘arrogant’ when she previously spoke out to say men were scared to date her because of her good looks.

She claimed potential suitors would cancel on her at the last minute – saying men are ‘scared off’ by how attractive she is.

Shirley said she also struggles to make friends because women ‘envy’ her appearance and are insecure.

But despite her dating struggles, Shirley has now received some offers of marriage.

‘I’ve been inundated by messages by men asking me for a date and even marriage proposals and offers abroad,’ the OnlyFans model said.

‘People think I’m arrogant and full of myself and say they don’t want to date me because I’m too arrogant.

‘I thought it was funny, people saying I’m full of myself. It seems to be mainly from middle aged or older women – because obviously they’re insecure.

‘A beautiful confident woman is not going to react to something like that, they’d laugh and move on.

‘Some of them said I should go to Specsavers – well I’ve got glasses and I still look sexy with my glasses on.’

Previously, Shirley said her good looks have even caused issues with ex-boyfriends who would get jealous when she got attention from other men.

And she says she hasn’t given up hope on finding ‘the one’ – hoping to meet someone who can rise to the challenge.

She hopes to inspire women to feel more confident in themselves – encouraging them not to compare themselves to other women.

‘I had loads of men asking me for dates and marriage on my Instagram and Facebook – I was quite surprised,’ said Shirley.

‘I think if all women felt confident and could look in the mirror and say to themselves “I’m confident and beautiful and sexy”, they wouldn’t be fighting amongst each other.

‘They make comments about my curves – they make out it’s fake but I haven’t had to pay, I’m natural.

‘A lot of plus-size women think they won’t get attention from men – but I get more attention now than I did when I was slimmer.

‘Rather than looking at other women and comparing, I tend not to do that – there’s women younger, slimmer, more beautiful than me.

‘But I don’t compare myself to them, I high-five them.’

Shirley, who calls herself ‘Busty Malone’ on TikTok, has been kicked off the platform multiple times for her revealing videos – and has said she has been discriminated against for her JJ-sized breasts.

Since September 2020, Shirley has been banned from TikTok multiple times for allegedly ‘violating community guidelines’ with her revealing content and skimpy clothing choices.

She told Hull Live previously: ‘It’s discrimination. They’re banning me because I’ve got really big boobs. My videos are not nude or pornographic.

‘If I was a size eight, or a B or C cup, they’d never have complained about me.’

Shirley also gets inundated with messages accusing her of having plastic surgery – but insists her bust is all real.

| Daily Mail |